LEARNING KISS FOR THE FIRST TIME

But how to make this amazing event was not spoiled? Girls, especially, young people tend to believe that the first kiss they had no problems and everything will turn out right. However, when the horizon suddenly loomed first date, many panic: I will not leave! That everything went like clockwork, you should learn the basic techniques of the first kiss.

Usually both partners are afraid of each other, embarrassed, and more stiffness, the more awkward to get a kiss.

The problem first kiss hurts not only boys but also girls, though, it would seem a lot easier for girls - young man takes the initiative, and the young person should simply repeat his movements and have fun. Girl in any case should not be ashamed of his kissing skills: good and smart guy will appreciate inexperience girls and for sure will treat her with great tenderness.

Young men in this sense is much more difficult and has to overcome his shyness. Boys often strongly retard moment kiss. If a girl is looking at him, without taking his eyes - a sure sign that it is ready to be kissed. If the young man will take your eyes and start talking about "something else" first kiss this time did not take place.

The setting for the first kiss

Highly desirable that the first kiss occurred in a romantic setting - then he remembered guaranteed for life.

The young man should ask a girl on a romantic date. If your date went well and in the girl's eyes appeared a spark, we can hope that the kiss will take place. Seeing Woman with home visits, youth need to try to implement its "insidious" plan.

But in any case it is impossible to ask the girls: you can kiss you? This issue will put her in a difficult position. If she responds positively, it will reveal the secrets of his soul and feels "read the book."

The girl who does not want to be kissed, certainly show that reluctance somehow. She can be crossed hands, or she will keep their distance, when the young man is trying to reduce it.

Very good place for a first kiss Picture Show (preferably some romantic movie). Sitting in a dark room, the youth need to take her hand, and try to choose the most appropriate moment for the first kiss. Here is a young person should rely on their intuition.

Good thing for the first kiss - it's goodbye. example, the young man leaves for a short while, she comes to spend it. Women by nature inclined to romance and so in this case may well take place memorable first kiss. Returning from a trip, the young man can be sure that the girl will look forward to it.

Difficult to simulate all possible situations in which you may place your first kiss. After a romantic relationship - it is very individualized and two identical romance novels does not happen.

Preparing for your first kiss

Lips and boys and girls should be ready to kiss, relaxed. It is very important that the tactile sensations were pleasant. Make the most suitable for lips kiss a few simple techniques can help:

• Peeling lips. Perform this procedure can using sugar. Peeling lips make more vivid and soft.
• Moisturize lips. Humidity is very important in a kiss and make it very simple: you just need a little mouth slightly open.
• Pleasant breath. clear that at first kiss mouth should smell nice. Achieve this is simple: long enough to chew the cud.

It is also very important to have a friendly look. Indeed, it often happens that a girl that wants a kiss, boy pushes his menacing look, and unconsciously. Psychologists have long known that the man say "leave me alone" can be the simplest bodily movements, and absolutely spontaneous, caused by nervous tension.

To look friendly, you must:

• In any case not to cross his arms.
• Do not cover your face with his hands.
• Look into the eyes of your partner.
• Smile.

To get the perfect first kiss, you need to pay attention to the "body language" partner. Furthermore, it is very important to break the barrier standing between people. When talking to gently touch the hand partner, as if by chance. Very important and eye contact: look boldly partner in the eye and smile.

Technique first kiss

First kiss, as a rule, is gentle and innocent enough. However, it all depends on the temperament of the partners, and how far their relationship had come.

Here are step by step instructions first kiss:

• The first kiss should not be aggressive, it should involve only the lips.
• Young man should bow his head, nose to shift sideways and touch lips girl without attaching to process language.
• A couple of seconds you need to freeze to feel all the time unusualness.
• Now follows a little girl could move his lips with the tip of the tongue.
• After the kiss, gently hug need girl and whisper in her ear tender words.

Sometimes a girl can take the initiative. This can be done unobtrusively and is naturally good-bye to a young man after a romantic date.

• Facing the boy, the girl smiles and says: "Thank you for a wonderful evening spent."
• As if by chance a step towards the boy and finds himself face to face with him. At this moment a young man and woman feel the excitement until vertigo.
• Closed their lips, she closes her eyes and begins to glide toward the young man to his lips.
• Slowly and gently girl kissing a young man, just a little lingering on his lips.

After that kiss looks best developments rapid departure girls. This will cause the youth to think about it when they return home and look forward to a new meeting.

Doubts at first kiss

Sometimes boys are afraid that their kiss the girl seem too nasty for collecting saliva in the mouth. Recommendation here can be only one: just before the kiss needed to swallow saliva and did not prolong the kiss itself.

However, there is a type of kiss, like a wet kiss. Acclaimed author William Kane once conducted a survey which showed that wet kiss like a huge number of women.

Another one of the fears at the first kiss - its duration. Guys can not decide how much should last kiss. In principle, the optimal duration of this beautiful action - one minute. Breathe in through your nose should kiss.

In addition, boys and girls can not figure out what to do with their eyes when kissing. Look at the nose partner? Or in the sky?

Do not worry, your eyes themselves "decide" what to do. Kissing they close themselves. Why? The reason is purely psychological.

Kissing, man gives up some of the surrounding reality, focusing on the sensations.

Fear first kiss

Building a romantic relationship - a long and hard work, it is not surprising that people overcomes the fear that some little thing can ruin everything. The first kiss is, of course, is no small thing, but still not the determining factor for men and women.

You must correctly configure itself to convince the bad kissing does not happen, because it is itself one of the most beautiful phenomena that exist on our planet.

Get rid of the fear of kissing help romance, tuning in the desired fashion. To train a kiss and a tomato can, and even in your own hand.

The expanses of the Internet there are considerable evidence from young men and women who experience fear first kiss.

For example, on one of the forums Sergey writes:

"I've never kissed a girl and when the girls find out about this, they run away from me. What to do. "

Obviously, the problem is not Sergei that he has no experience in kissing, and how he positions himself . uncertainty - not the best of mates in a romantic relationship.

In this situation, the lack of experience - this is not a disadvantage, and dignity - just a guy "saves" the first kiss to his girlfriend. But here he Sergei apparently sure of his "inferiority" and begins to behave insecure awkward. So the girl and "runs". Guy he startled her by his own fears.

Can advise the boy beat the situation differently: to say that he has no experience kissing because up to this point he met the girl he would like to kiss.

How to learn how to kiss for the first time without a language

Kissing without language, is perhaps the most appropriate way at the first kiss. Correct kiss without language can be done when the lips are relaxed partners. Solid, tight lips will not be able to deliver fun girl or boy. Breathing should refresh using special tools. Girl would be superfluous to erase lipstick and a little boy is allowed to moisturize lips.

When it was time to kiss the immediate need as close as possible to the partner and take him around the waist or hands.

Now you need to touch your partner's lips lips, close your eyes.

Followed by very gently and carefully grab his lips lip one partner, pull it slightly, slightly suck. The same should be done with the other girls or boys lip. By the way, let's say, and weak (very weak!) Bite lips partner teeth.

Should not be strongly pulling his lips, from this they become firm.

The basic rule without first kiss - naturalness. Need to be in a kiss yourself, do not borrow from other manner of their kiss.

How to learn how to kiss for the first time with the language

Kiss with tongue or French kiss - very intimate and sensual touch men and women.

Before you need to kiss lick lips so they slid well. Bringing face to face partner, tilt your head so as not to encounter noses. When your face will be as close as possible, closed his eyes.

You should start with a kiss with closed lips. Disclose the mouth should gradually and very slowly.

Make sure that your partner has nothing against the French kiss. Slightly parted lips, make sure that the partner lips clamped one your lip. Loosened and the ganging lips, sticking out his tongue and licking his lips partner like candy.

We must act as soon as possible softer language. Breathe with the French kiss should be through the nose.

When your tongue in your mouth turned partner, walk across the sky, teeth, and, of course, in his language.

If a partner would be responsive to French kiss may be the most sensible and extraordinary experience in life.

Types of Kisses

Kisses come in different types, and in the second century BC, in India, they were sufficiently detailed.

Here are a few popular types of kisses, many years pleasurable for men and women.

• Kiss "Inat" - gentle and soft kiss on the lips, one of the most romantic kisses. Carried out exclusively lips.
• "Smooth kiss" . The young man puts his lips and how to "suck" with her ​​lips himself, while trying to touch her ​​tongue.
• Famous kiss "Fighting mouths" performed by biting partner's lips. This kiss is very important not to bite your favorite or favorite too.
• "Kiss teeth" called the action when the young man lower and lower partner throws his head back, just glaring at her with his lips.
• Kiss "mill" . Girl or boy takes a language partner currently cheek, and how to rotate it with his tongue.
• "Shamefaced" called that kiss when she moves slightly lower lip.

Most appropriate for a first date of the above kisses look "Inat", "fight mouths" and "shy." However, it all depends on the temperament of the kissing couple.

How to ensure that you wanted to kiss

In the Swedish language has a single word that can be translated into Russian as "the man who wants to kiss." Swedes kisses - this is a serious matter, the whole concept.

In order to be attractive from this point of view, it is necessary:

First, carefully monitor the freshness of your breath, brush your teeth, use a special mouthwash.

Second, and perhaps most importantly: obligatory clean language. In the language accumulate bacteria and destroying them, you make your breathing much fresher and more attractive.

Third, remember that people are always drawn to those who have a sense of humor and friendliness. For example, according to a study in the U.S., women are more like Woody Allen, not Arnold Schwarzenegger.

Finally, the fourth point, which, however, applies only to boys. According to the survey, most women are willing to kiss a clean-shaven guy.

Useful Tips

First kiss to remember for a lifetime, you need to strive to meet the following conditions:

• The first time you need to kiss a desirable man, when looking at which stops the heart. Must exist mate sympathy.
• Should not be kissing for the first time, if there is no any desire for this, the story is completely unsuitable. Also do not need to sacrifice their first kiss just in order to "gain experience." Kiss - is a manifestation of feelings and not bonded obligation.
• Improperly received by those who kiss the first time, for bravery after drinking an alcoholic beverage. Alcohol dulls our senses, and, despite the resulting artificially emancipation memorable first kiss will not work.
• Girl still not worth it to take the initiative first, because in the future it is important to know what the guy kissed her. Such an attitude inherent in the female sex since childhood and it is not necessary to destroy this disposition.

In summary, it must be said that the main mistake that can make the first time kissing a man - that is to say, "Kiss for themselves." Need every fiber trying to catch the partner desires and follow them, thinking about how to give him or her pleasure, then kiss will be unforgettable.

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